Sadly, most of
my LGBT friends did think of or attempt suicide when they were facing stress
with disclosure or during the coming out process. It might be rather
easy for heterosexual people to share
their love relationship conflict with their significant others and seek advice
from them. However, for LGBT
people, due to the sexual stigmatization, majority of them keep their
relationship conflict or problem within themselves and hardly express their emotional
pain. The hopelessness and helplessness might be the key elucidation of
suicidal thoughts and attempt. Here are some research about the LGBT risk to
suicidal ideation:
1) A
large-scale UK study which compared the mental health of 1,093 heterosexual
with 1,284 LGBT people, almost a third of the LGBT people had attempted suicide
(King et al., 2003).
2) Research
suggest that lesbian are at greater risk for attempting and completing suicide
than heterosexual woman. One study of adults found that lesbians were
significantly more likely to have considered suicide in the past than
heterosexual women, with over half of the lesbians having contemplated suicide
(51%), compared to 38% of heterosexual women (Hughes et al., 2000).
3) National
lesbian health Care survey (NLHCS) found that over half their lesbian sample
had thought about suicide, with 18 % having attempted suicide (Bradford et al.,
1997).
4) The Boston Lesbian health Project II showed that
20% of their sample had made a suicide attempt (Roberts et al., 2004).
5) Between 48%
and 76% of homosexual and bisexual youth have thoughts of committing suicide,
and 29% to 42% have attempted it, compared with estimated rates of 7% to 13%
among high school students in general (Armesto, 2001; Cochran & Mays, 2000;
Russell & Joner, 2001).
There
is always hope, please do not keep this suicidal feelings to yourself, share
with someone you trust (at least make a call), it could your friends, parents,
family members or counsellor, and let them know how bad things are. Don’t let
fear, shame, or embarrassment prevent you from seeking help. Just talking about
how you got to this point in your life can release a lot of the pressure that’s
building up and help you find a way to cope.
There
a few hotlines or organization you could seek help or make call for: Let someone know your pain.
1)
Samaritans organization worldwide:
Hong
Kong : http://www.samaritans.org.hk
- 24/7 hotline: 2896 0000
United
States : http://www.samaritansusa.org
Samaritans
of Singapore (SOS) : 24/7 hotline: 1800-221 4444
United
Kingdom : http://www.samaritansusa.org
: 24/7 hotline: 08457 90 90 90
2)
USA national suicide hotline http://www.suicidehotlines.com/
1800-SUICIDE :1-800-784-2433
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(2001). Attributions and emotional reactions to the identity disclosure of a
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Bradford, J.,
Ryan, C., & Rothblum, E. (1997). National lesbian health care surveys.
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